In one of my classes - I'm a Nutrition major...yeah I find this funny and ironic - we had to do an exercise about how you would feel about taking advice from a nutrition counselor that was "not the ideal body weight". Well damn not 10 minutes earlier this I was talking to 2 of my classmates about this exact thing (I am without a doubt one of the only fat people in my major and it can be quite intimidating - I try my hardest to not eat chocolate chip cookies in class). I of course stated that this is something that I have thought and worried about for quite a while - will I fail at my career because of the way I look? Will anyone want to come to me for advice? What if no one looks beyond my appearance to give me a chance? This topic has definitely given me a bit anxiety especially considering that for this same class we have a 5 week project where we have to counsel some random person that was assigned to us. I was completely freaking out that my client would be totally unresponsive once she saw me and not want to participate in the program any longer. I am happy to report that she didn't show me any signs that she was not going to take advice from the fat girl and seemed interested in what I had to say. I really hope that there are more people like her out there because I plan on being very successful in my field and career. I may not go into counseling but I will definitely be working in the nutrition field in some way and even if I am meet with judgement I know that I have the knowledge and the passion to be where I am.
So please remember that just because someone doesn't look the part it doesn't mean that they don't have the knowledge that is needed.
“ Judgments prevent us from seeing the good that lies beyond appearances.” Wayne Dyer
Your going to be fabulous! Just be you and focus on what's important.. Stop saying your going to fail bc You Won't... :). Be tough!
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